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The Interruptions of Anger:
Interruptions is stopping
or hindering, by breaking out in actions. Anger is an emotion that
interrupts when a person is displeased with someone or something.
There are many reasons a person can feel anger. However, when a person
has an un-controlling anger problem, then in many cases there is no
justifiable cause for the outbursts. One example can be seen when
a child becomes aggressive when his brother goes in his room. The
angered child might yell, cuss, call the younger child names, and
even become violent attacking the child. The cause of his anger is
unjustified to a degree; however, his behaviors appeared to everyone
else that his reasoning was condemned. The child that violated his
rights is ignored now, since the perpetrator is the angry person involved.
If the child would have acted differently, then we could justify his
reasoning for anger. Now we are looking at unjustifiable and justifiable
combined. However, when a person gets angry and attempts to kill another
individual simply because this person refuses to be with the angry
person, we know we are dealing with unjustifiable anger. We all get
mad at times, and all of us lose control sometimes, but not all of
us hurt others when our control is out of our hands. Anytime a person
is violent, it is not always a result of anger. Some angry persons
most likely have underlying mental illnesses. This is when we look
at unjustifiable anger. To deal with anger when a mental illness is
involved we must first dig up some bones. In other words, anger management
is not going to work until we find the source that caused the person
to explode when angry. We can look at examples of one individual that
exploded out of anger, attacking another individual because that person
could not hear. We analyze both sides of the story carefully to see
what resulted the angry interruption. We can see that the child has
mental illnesses, since he has been professional diagnosed. We know
that this is an instigator of his behaviors. Now, the deaf woman was
assaulted according to the person that assaulted because she could
not hear. The fact is, this woman kept the child in her home for a
few months and she was controlling. She would often get angry with
him when he wanted to go home. The child obviously was abused mentally
by her controlling behaviors. However, it was noted by an individual
that child molestation might have been in the picture, which would
increase his anger. While this was never proven a series of patterns,
fell into place, making it obvious. Therefore, although this child
had mental illnesses, coupled with angry outbursts as a problem, he
had a root and a justifiable cause. The proper way for this child
to handle the situation is telling a trustworthy adult what was going
on in the home. Instead, he struck the woman, claiming it was because
she could not hear. The child went to court and was looked down on,
and the system only displayed pity for the victim. Not in all cases
does this occur, since the victims of violent crimes are often persecuted.
Now we can go back through the child’s history and see before
this incident that he encountered other angry outbursts. Therefore,
the act committed is totally on his shoulders. The problem is this
child again has dangerous diagnosis that interrupts his ability to
function in society. Therefore, to deal with his anger we must find
the root of his diagnose and find a solution for dealing with the
emotions involved, including all the areas that caused his anger to
explode. We can look at another example were a child becomes aggressive
and assaulting in school, attacking his teachers regularly. The child
was also diagnosed with mental illnesses, yet at school is where most
of his behaviors displayed them selves. At times, his behaviors were
justifiable, yet irresponsible, and at other times his behaviors was
completely out of control. Since the child hears voices in his head
it caused confusion when others would speak to him, and he felt everyone
was persecuting him or out to get him. Now we are dealing with unjustifiable
cause of anger explosion. The making of rage comes in all forms.
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