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Influenced Anger:
The world is enough
in many instances to make us all mad enough to explode. How we all
deal with our anger differs in all cases. Some of us repress our emotions
and feelings, while others blow up and attack others. If the person
behaves this way, he or she has an emotional interruption that leads
to aggression. Anger in all aspects of the word is hatred toward a
person, past influences and so forth. Often if a person has anger
issues then he or she will need to see a therapist specializing in
anger management. Most likely, this person has been subjected to neglect,
abuse and possibly a candidate for alcohol and drug abuse. If the
person has a series of problems and no one is, addressing the issue
the symptoms can be harmful to both the patient and others. Before
treatment is effective, the person must be willing to admit he or
she has a problem with anger. If this person is in denial most likely
therapy will take longer, and in most cases, the patient rarely recovers.
Many patients in denial will rarely visit a counselor until he or
she becomes acquainted with the law and forced to adhere to treatment.
The downside is under all the hate the person has endured an area
of life that caused the pain. When we think of the system we are always
dealing with failures in the legal system, mishaps in mental health,
and interruptions from society, and the list continues. It is difficult
to never go through life without being anger at someone or something
at some time. The key is learning to deal with anger and learning
how to effectively announce your anger in light, without causing harm.
For example, if you were dealing with a racist individual, which is
enough to make anyone angry, you would want to throw some honey on
the person instead of fueling the fire. Throwing a bit of honey will
often make a person back off and address the spark that sent the flames
forward. What I learned when dealing with individuals with anger problems
is they often have difficulty interrupting others. Therefore if a
person makes a statement, or addresses an issue the person with the
anger issues may feel that the other party is striking out at them.
These types of people often feel like the world is focused on them
and that everyone around is out to make them mad. This is often stemmed
from lack of education and dialect issues. There are many nationalities,
race, class, ethnics, and so forth, and we all can’t understand
everyone all the time, but we all can learn to understand everyone
some of the time. One example can be seen when a man from Kentucky
joined a speech class and sitting across from him was a Yankee. According
to the instructor, the two men bickered and fought frequently until
he sat them down and told them that dialect was the cause of their
misunderstanding. The two men understood at this point and became
best friends there after. Now these men applied anger but not to the
point that a person with severe anger problems would have. We can
see severe anger by looking at Joe who tells Rick that he was not
happy with his behaviors last night. Rick instead of saying explains
to me what I did. Instead, Rick breaks out in a rage and strikes out
at the man calling him names or even at times attempting to hit him.
This anger issues should be addressed. Another incident were aggression
is shown is when a woman is committing petty crimes and strikes out
at others around her for their refusal to lie on her behalf. Let us
say the woman becomes angry, kicks in the door, and yells like a stark
raven manic. We know this woman has anger issues, but what was the
root? The root then is her paranoia stemmed from her crimes and hates
inside that makes her break out into a rage. The person is obviously
in denial of her actions anyone addressing them is wrong according
to her way of thinking. Therefore, we see a need for anger management.
When we are living on the edge of anger, we are walking on the edge
of life.
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